Men have been asked to build strong self-esteem since childhood, and after a strong catalysis in the workplace, it is difficult to remove even when they return home.
They are strong and brave, and they will not be soft. Therefore, it is inevitable that the child will not feel the hobby of his father.
And because the child is not cared for by his father, he often feels that there is a lack of loneliness.
Maybe the school is doing very well, maybe it is a difficult problem to grow up. The child wants to get the father's affirmation and attention, but the father is always busy, busy making money to maintain the family and let the whole family live a better life.
"Dad is working hard outside, you don't bother him."
Mother always tells the child like this. Day after day, my father missed the child's childhood, adolescence, and even adulthood.
If you miss it, you will not come back. When fathers and children suddenly look back one day, it will be a pity that they can share the intimate time. The father missed the child's growth, and from another perspective, the child also missed the story of his father's life.
Because the father is not as strong as we can see, he will not express it. He thinks that is his responsibility. Because he is a father.
It turns out that Dad is the most easily overlooked person in the world. Love must be timely, overdue expression, and it is bound to leave a full of regrets. People who are children should pay more attention to their fathers. Those who are fathers should also self-examine the position of the family.
The question of father's love is still based on love as an answer.
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This is the article I saw in the book. I feel good and have some feelings, so I will share it with you.
More than 11 o'clock in the evening a few days ago, I have already exceeded my father's time to get home from work, but my father has not yet arrived home, so my mom called to ask my father why.
It turned out that the day before, when my dad was finishing the flowers, he moved too many potted plants for the plants and the waist was a little flashed.
So my dad stayed at the school for the night, and that night I remember it was a rare cold day.
Now, I realize that my father is a little different from my father who is strong and invincible XD.
My father is very strong and has a lot of interest. Gardening, aquarium, animals, and a variety of foods (made by Chinese desserts) are well understood.
Since my childhood, my father has set an example as my role, saying that if you don’t eat junk food, you will never buy those things.
It is also a leader to exercise or do something. There are many aspects to doing things.
But in my impression, my father’s impression on me is always more serious. I think many fathers are like this.
I don't know if it is the concept of the Chinese tradition, the father should be serious.
So we always feel alienated about our father, especially the father who is desperate to make money to support the family.
Fortunately, my father has not been as hard as it used to make money in the past few years. It has become much more complicated with our younger brothers, and it is hardly serious. :)
But many children are growing up fathers, I hope that you can take time to spend with your family and children, no matter how busy you are.
After all, the process of growing up the child is only once, missed, and there is no more.
I hope that the father of the world will share it (I will do it later)
The children should not be too stubborn, old-fashioned and not close to the father. After all, each person's expression of love is different. Some fathers' love for their children may be used and read.
But think about it, is your father good for you? There are no parents in the world who do not love their children.
Finally, to all the parents in the world, you have worked hard!
