The foreign website womanitely has compiled 10 major signs, so that you can see at a glance that the boy (or woman) is smashing against the deer? Still have no interest at all. Moderators believe that in fact, this symptom is all based on psychology. More importantly, it may not be shown only in boys. If girls are interested in you and like you, there will also be most physiological reactions. . Of course, if you are a skilled NLP, maybe you will still see it, and in turn apply the coup....
1 pupil enlargement
The eyes will sell the true feelings of the person. When we are interested in one person or thing, the pupil will naturally enlarge; if you do not like it, the pupil will shrink. If you find that a boy has continued to dilate pupils, he is most likely already attracted to you.
(Editor's note: I have previously written an article about the phenomenon of pupil dilation, please refer to the truth of Xi Shi in the eyes of the lover? The pupil is an organ that is very difficult to control with the will. From the research point of view, regardless of men and women, look When you are interested in objects and even commodities, your pupils will be magnified instantly. The most obvious thing is when men see erotic images, but for women, it’s not so much when they see naked men, when they see children or cute animals. More obvious. Just because pupil dilation is a very obvious natural reflex action, the "pupil enlargement" that every woman loves in recent years will become mainstream, definitely not because of what "it looks like God" but because This will make the user more attractive.)
2 smile
Most of the shy boys smile first, and the best way to cope is to smile back. Don't pretend to be high-profile and difficult to chase, because this usually means a clear rejection for the boy.
(Editor's note: Smile is the basic instinct of human beings to show affinity. It is also the beginning of all communication. From the behavioral point of view, there are many kinds of smiles, and the most effective and most sensible ones should be not "smiling smiles". "In other words, in other words, try to show a little bit of teeth to show your smile. Others will think that you are more sunny! Or remind you that the above is limited to girls, boys should be careful not to become idiots."
3 blush
This should be too obvious! Not only are shy boys blushing, but boys who are not shy at ordinary times may also be blushing beyond control.
(Editor's note: Blush is usually thought to be accompanied by "heartbeat acceleration", the heart beats faster, the capillaries on the face also expand, the blood flowing to the face increases, and the face becomes red. From the perspective of NLP Saying that blushing can also be regarded as a sexually suggestive representation, so for thousands of years, girls around the world have turned blush into "essential cosmetics", which is still the case today.)
4 four eyes intersect
When a boy looks at his time for an unreasonable time, then he is like a captain. And if the eye contact time is short and unreasonable, it may be like being jealous and shy. Girls must have a ruler in their hearts.
(Editor's note: "Four eyes are relative" has always been the cover of men, because in terms of physiological structure, the man's field of vision is called "hole-shaped vision", in short, it is very easy to be found when staring at girls, and Girls are special and belong to the "circular view", which means that even if a girl really wants to stare at you, it is not easy to be confirmed. Therefore, when a boy stares at a girl, it will be basically "nine". "Catch the package". This also tells us that anyway, it will be captured, then it is generous! Extended reading: 讪 讪: It is better to meet the stranger with four eyes!)
5 mirror action
For example, when you laugh, he is just laughing, in fact, we naturally imitate the people we like. Some dating sites even teach single boys to naturally imitate the action of crushing girls. When all the movements seem to be naturally synchronized, they may even mirror the other side's heart.
(Editor: Synchronization is the cornerstone of NLP. It is also the first step in learning NLP. Don't underestimate this foundation. If you are skilled in this technology, you can already produce very good results, quickly gain trust, and even negotiate business. More smoothly, please refer directly to the relevant column brainwashing topic of this site - synchronization)
6 hands akimbo
When the boy akimbo, or hooked the belt buckle with his thumb, he is trying to show confidence and try to show masculinity. This is one of the little tricks to attract women.
(Editor's note: If a woman's blush is a symbol of a woman's sexual suggestion, then a man is usually a hand-involved waist! In fact, behind this action, visually deliberately highlights the majesty of his "genital", while doing this action must be two feet across Open and raise your head, and to a certain extent, it also represents "the expansion of the personal field", so that in the evolution of biology, this posture becomes a body language of a confident man who declares sovereignty. It is easy to produce in the eyes of women. This man has the illusion of self-confidence.)
7 touch
The boy suddenly touched him and said that he wanted to draw awkward attention and find an excuse to talk. Most girls can easily ignore this important little trick. If you like it, just touch it back (mistaken). He may be a true love.
(Editor's note: Physical contact has always been a key indicator in love. I often come across friends who ask me how to break through with my favorite object. I will definitely ask, how many physical contacts do you have? If there is no point at all Don't feel good about yourself and say that the other person is interesting to you. For this part, please refer to one of the most popular articles on this site, Love - How to properly shoulder and hold hands?)
8 hoe
When a man is squatting closer, it is to listen to the words of the embarrassment and enjoy the time of conversation with the ape. Of course, this means that you have a good impression on you.
(Editor's note: When I remember to chase a female class, I mentioned this technique. When a girl talks to you, if you show "like a puppy-like girl", it often has an unexpected effect. This is because breastfeeding Animal instinct, we will only highlight our weaknesses in front of the people we trust. The action of Shantou is to present the carotid artery in front of others, and it can give hints of "putting down the war" in the other subconscious. For girls, Take a look at the popular photo of the sister, it seems that the photo of the neck and collarbone is very common!)
9 eyebrows
A boy who loves you may be avoiding eye contact because of his shyness, but his eyebrows can't be hidden. Boys who like you will keep your eyes open and continue to raise your eyebrows when you listen to you.
(Editor's note: I remember seeing an experiment many years ago. It is said that raising the eyebrow itself is a very good "showing good" behavior. The researchers found that in a social occasion like a quick friendship, just add a natural eyebrow before the conversation. And with a smile, there will be obvious bonus points. In fact, this phenomenon should also come from the instinct of mammals. When we see objects of interest and love, even if we don’t use words, the eyebrows will naturally rise. Therefore, when women make up, they often emphasize the lines of eyelashes and eyebrows, so that men "misunderstand" that they are discharging, which is more attractive!)
10 Sitting in trouble
Sitting restless and even a little anxious, because he is looking forward to nervous, do not know if you are interested in him, but also a little nervous how to further open the topic of love.
(Editor's note: The word "difficulty in sitting" is somewhat empty. It may be more appropriate and easy to judge "many self-intimate behaviors." When we are very nervous and anxious, the subconscious will force us to make changes in our behavior. Through these small movements to offset the inner uneasiness, such as touching the hair, licking the lips, touching the neck, touching the wrist, etc., all men and women, there will be similar self-intimate behavior, more please see love - How do I know if the other person likes you?
Now we have understood that these signs can not only be used to observe, assist in judging other people's ideas, but also through reverse learning, making them an excellent tool to help communicate, how to make good use, how to make yourself more popular, test Our wisdom and experience.
